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Child Custody lawyer? Tips?

I've been divorced for over 5 years and the custody agreement said 50/50 (it was us who decided it) and medical must be paid but no child support.

He is becomming a dead beat dad hasn't paid for her medical at all (she is special needs and sees many specialist doctors) and hasn't seen her in over a year and hardly calls her. My daughters shrink is saying she shouldn't go back because something is obviously wrong and want more time to work with her.

Long story short i'm wondering if it's difficult to change coustody papers and how much is it usually if I have to hire a lawyer?

If anyone has any tips or stories to share that would be helpful as it feels super over whelming.

Thanks and God Bless!

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Columbia County, Georgia Child Custody lawyer

Columbia County, Georgia Child Custody lawyer There are many ways to work out a child custody arrangement. The spouses do not always have to let the court determine the schedule. Rotating custody, while not common, works perfectly if …

Fight For Your Right With Utah Child Custody Lawyer

Child custody vary from different states that sometimes it is quite confusing. A Utah child custody lawyer can only explain the process of child custody properly and professionally. There are rules that Utah child custody lawyer follows …

Reasonable Solution Sharing Parenting Tips « Walking Down the Road …

It will be important to visit a lawyer to learn your rights and obligations according to the custody law in your state. You may also visit a couple's therapist to learn how to co-parent effectively. After you come to some agreement …

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Critical Steps For Fathers Fighting A Restraining Order During Divorce

Fathers’ rights during divorce are often forgotten. So if you’re a father fighting a restraining order as part of a custody battle with your ex, you need to ensure you take several critical steps as soon as you find out a phony order has been granted against you. This article has been written in the hope that it can help to resolve your situation – with the favorable outcome being for you, not her.

Step 1: Move personal records and paperwork out of her reach to a safe location.

This is a vitally important step and should be done as soon as possible – yes, in the middle of the night if need be. If you’re fighting a restraining order, you are obviously barred from going to her home to sort this aspect out. But you need to get that paperwork out of the family home.

Therefore, it is entirely reasonable and within your fathers divorce rights to ask a friend or relative to pick up this paperwork for you. If you don’t have anyone to ask, or they aren’t close enough to do it in time, ask your lawyer to arrange this on your behalf.

You should obtain computer discs or hard drives which hold similar information on them – if you think your ex will cause issues in this regard, speak to your lawyer about getting the entire computer confiscated by an unbiased third party. This is also the right move if you have shared data on the discs (so she can’t claim you have sabotaged her records in any way).

Examples of the type of files that should be obtained from her reach are employment records, salary information, your will, tax or accounting data.

Step 2: Don’t sign anything.

Never, ever sign any agreement or paperwork that you haven’t had time to fully digest whilst fighting a restraining order or figuring out how to win a custody battle. You may want to get your lawyer to check out any agreements. A typical method to deny a father’s divorce rights, when she is plotting to win a custody battle, is to get him to sign agreements which no lawyer can get withdrawn later down the line.

My own ex offered to withdraw her phony domestic violence claim against me (which had been stopping me seeing my kids for several weeks at this point) if I would sign a paren
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tal custody split agreement in which I’d get to visit my boys every third Saturday of the month. Although tempted, I didn’t sign it – and five years later I have full and proper custody of my kids. My lawyer acknowledged that I’d done the right thing by not caving into her blackmail early on, when I couldn’t afford a lawyer so I had no idea if I was doing the right thing.

Step 3: Freeze any jointly-owned assets such as credit cards or bank accounts or pensions.

This one can wait until the morning and should only take a few minutes of your time (a very welcome thing when you’re trying to figure out how to fight a restraining order and how to win a custody battle!). Let your ex know you plan to do all of this via your lawyer or a mutually-acceptable friend or relative.

First of all, cancel the joint credit cards completely – don’t ask to put a lower spending limit on them, it’s just not worth it. Thousands of dollars of debt can be run up on a single card in a few minutes, and if you’re the main card holder it’ll be you footing the bill. If your ex is vindictive enough to file a phony abuse allegation against you, just to see you fighting a restraining order, she’s sly enough to cause you financial hardship in other ways too. If she has already started a spending spree, report the credit card as stolen (you may end up paying a few dollars to cover the issuing bank’s costs, my own cost $50 in fees when my ex decided to get a new wardrobe on my dime).

Second, remove exactly half of all money stored in joint bank accounts, and stop contributing to IRAs, 401(K) accounts or other pension pots held jointly. Arrange to pay your half of any outstanding bills or fees that the account owes, for example by writing a cheque. This way, you are getting what is rightfully yours but not fighting a dirty divorce game like her.

Step 4: Keep a journal, or two!

Record significant events that could have an impact on fighting the restraining order, or the winning the custody battle. Log time spent with your kids, arguments with your ex – basically any information that might have an impact on the divorce proceedings. Keep it in a secure location, in a metal box.

Just make sure to stick to factual information (times, dates, those in attendance, locations) because your journal may be subpoenaed as written evidence later on, and used against you by your ex. At the very least she may decide to petition to read its contents if she finds out about it, even if there is nothing in there that will help her case. One trick I learnt about is to start each journal entry with “To My Attorney, [his or her name]” so that the record becomes “privileged communication” and isn’t liable to be subpoenaed.

It’s probably a good idea to keep a second journal for your personal thoughts and feelings about what’s going on – this helped me immensely during my three year custody battle (during which time I was also fighting a restraining order).

By: Adam J. Jenkins

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Adam J. Jenkins runs the Fighting A Restraining Order website, which aims to show fathers how to win a custody battle during the divorce process.

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